Oh Happy Days..........

Oh happy days.......

I thought as much as I want to pitch a bitch fit about my EX GIT I should say I have blocked him from my one email account. OUTTA SIGHT OUTTA MIND.

OK I lied about the last part, I wished I COULD get the ugly fecker out of my mind. Granted I AM glad he is out of the USA and so far away in England.

I got an email from a friend whom is dealing with a situation and my heart aches for her and her little one. Ive never met this woman and to be honest I do not know her that well, though we have kids near the same age.. and both married assholes...and I think she is awesome and courageous in her efforts to keep her true feelings about her EX away from her child as not to influence her feelings about her father.

I am doing the same though my son understand most things.. he does not comprehend the realities just yet of WHERE his father is.....much less where England is other then far away as we call it, so for now this is a good thing being my son is only 2.. not quite 3 yrs old. He in time like so many will have to make up his own mind about his father. Though I plan on saving all of these emails I have. I just dont think it will help his psyche to know anything about WHY he has denied him and the reason behind his thinking is cause I wanted a divorce, and gave him my maiden name....well he denied him from the day we found I was preggo so WHY worry about names!

I wanna be like CHER in Moonstruck and when she is in front of Nicholas Cage...she slaps him across the face and yells..."SNAP OUT OF IT!! "

I commend alot of you women out there dealing with EX husbands not paying their support and not taking time with the kids as ordered.. and in my opinion, you should not HAVE to tell the EX to come VISIT their child(ren) in the first place! Pisses me off how they really think they are hurting US and they are really hurting their child (ren) that they helped to create!